anna and enrique fans chat and in-depth discussion thread

[mbno20x2]

Whatever happened to your promise that you'd stop criticizing Enrique's work endlessly?

Ever thought that maybe you only see the articles that talk about Anna because that's what you Google? There are probably lots of other articles about Enrique and his career where she isn't even mentioned. But you don't read those.

Let's turn it around for a moment and ask how many articles about Anna there are written where they don't ask her about Enrique. If it wasn't for Enrique, what would reporters ask Anna about.

I don't like Anna with Enrique either. Seems it's not working for them anymore. But it's unfair to bash Enrique for it constantly. Anna's in the relationship too. I blame her for staying in this. Maybe Enrique has tried to break up with her but she won't. She should know it's time to move on. Maybe she should listen to Fergie's new song, "Fairytales don't always have a happy ending, do they? And I forseek the darker half if I stay" Time to be a big girl now, Anna.

[Grid_Kournikova]

Originally Posted by mbno20x2

Whatever happened to your promise that you'd stop criticizing Enrique's work endlessly?

Ever thought that maybe you only see the articles that talk about Anna because that's what you Google? There are probably lots of other articles about Enrique and his career where she isn't even mentioned. But you don't read those.

Let's turn it around for a moment and ask how many articles about Anna there are written where they don't ask her about Enrique. If it wasn't for Enrique, what would reporters ask Anna about.

Well I can't read things about Enrique without giving my opinion... huahuahua... And I don't only read what I find in google... I also go to his board once in a while and read the interviews fan post there... I tell you, 90% of his interviews are about Anna and his dad, it's like people don't really care about his new CD!
And about Anna, that phone interview before WTT, for example, they asked NOTHING about Enrique... And also Anna is not working anymore, so that's fair that she get asked about private life... But when you have a new CD coming out and people just wanna know about your father or you GF, means nobody cares about your work!

Originally Posted by mbno20x2

I don't like Anna with Enrique either. Seems it's not working for them anymore. But it's unfair to bash Enrique for it constantly. Anna's in the relationship too. I blame her for staying in this. Maybe Enrique has tried to break up with her but she won't. She should know it's time to move on. Maybe she should listen to Fergie's new song, "Fairytales don't always have a happy ending, do they? And I forseek the darker half if I stay" Time to be a big girl now, Anna.

Is he a man or a woman? If he wanted the relatinship over he could just say "It's OVER"... That's easier for men, they're not so emotional as women... And Anna IS ACTUALLY in love, but Enrique isn't, so he's the one to finish it... I know Anna would feel bad, but she would move on... You get hurt when a relationship ends, but then you move on and that's how life is... I get angry with Enrique because for him this relationship is really GOOD, he goes everywhere he wants, he does whatever he wants and after all he goes to Miami and he has Anna there waiting for him... He's using her... I feel sorry for Anna, but I feel she's too in love to let it go... And about Fergie, this song is a big hit here in Brazil... Everybody loves it and I also love the lirycs and yeah Anna should listen to those lirycs to have power to say goodbye to Enrique and move on and be a big girl, not a little girl as in Enrique's song...

[f529]

hey grid

I dont want you to take this the wrong way but why do you care soooo much about anna and EI's relationship? I know you are a big fan of annas but come on! Its not like she is a friend or a relative of yours.
I dont mean to be disrespectful, but you do go a little overboard sometimes analyzing their relationship. its okay to care about people you admire but do you really think anna or enrique care so much about their fans? I cant speak of anna but I have been a fan of enrique for over 10 years and i have seen how well he genuinely treats his fans. Way better than most artists. Having said that I am pretty sure that off stage he is more concerned about his loved ones (even anna) as hard as it is for you to believe than his fans.
I apologize if i seem too critical and for singling you out. All i am saying is dont get so worked up about their relationship because we dont know the whole story. Sometimes a picture is not worth a 1000 words

[mbno20x2]

Originally Posted by Grid Kournikova

Is he a man or a woman? If he wanted the relatinship over he could just say "It's OVER"... That's easier for men, they're not so emotional as women... And Anna IS ACTUALLY in love, but Enrique isn't, so he's the one to finish it... I know Anna would feel bad, but she would move on... You get hurt when a relationship ends, but then you move on and that's how life is... I get angry with Enrique because for him this relationship is really GOOD, he goes everywhere he wants, he does whatever he wants and after all he goes to Miami and he has Anna there waiting for him... He's using her... I feel sorry for Anna, but I feel she's too in love to let it go... And about Fergie, this song is a big hit here in Brazil... Everybody loves it and I also love the lirycs and yeah Anna should listen to those lirycs to have power to say goodbye to Enrique and move on and be a big girl, not a little girl as in Enrique's song...

What do you think Enrique should do then? Dump her and walk away? What do you think Anna would do since she's so in love with him like you say? You think she will just get over it, no problem? She seems desperate since she keeps him even when the relationship is no good anymore. If he left her, she might freak. She got really skinny last year, you thought it might have been because of him. So if he dumped her, she might try to hurt herself. He said he can't stand to see her cry, and maybe she cries everytime he tries to leave her. You don't know, Grid. Maybe this is a lot more complicated than you can imagine. And you don't know anything about men or how they think. I can tell.

[Grid_Kournikova]

Originally Posted by f529

hey grid

I dont want you to take this the wrong way but why do you care soooo much about anna and EI's relationship? I know you are a big fan of annas but come on! Its not like she is a friend or a relative of yours.
I dont mean to be disrespectful, but you do go a little overboard sometimes analyzing their relationship. its okay to care about people you admire but do you really think anna or enrique care so much about their fans? I cant speak of anna but I have been a fan of enrique for over 10 years and i have seen how well he genuinely treats his fans. Way better than most artists. Having said that I am pretty sure that off stage he is more concerned about his loved ones (even anna) as hard as it is for you to believe than his fans.
I apologize if i seem too critical and for singling you out. All i am saying is dont get so worked up about their relationship because we dont know the whole story. Sometimes a picture is not worth a 1000 words

I'll never meet Anna or anything and I know that she doesn't care about me and she doesn't even know who I am... But I hate men like Enrique, womanizing, who don't respect their GF... I've seen a lot like him, and I've seen what happened to some of my friends who dates guys of this type and I think Anna shouldn't be with a jerk like him, I care about her and I wanted to see her with a better guy... But that's her choice... And well... Let's not begin everything again... I have my opinions about Enrique and you have yours and that's it... I don't want argue over this again, REALLY!

[Grid_Kournikova]

Originally Posted by mbno20x2

What do you think Enrique should do then? Dump her and walk away? What do you think Anna would do since she's so in love with him like you say? You think she will just get over it, no problem? She seems desperate since she keeps him even when the relationship is no good anymore. If he left her, she might freak. She got really skinny last year, you thought it might have been because of him. So if he dumped her, she might try to hurt herself. He said he can't stand to see her cry, and maybe she cries everytime he tries to leave her. You don't know, Grid. Maybe this is a lot more complicated than you can imagine. And you don't anything about men or how they think. That's easy to see.

If there's one thing I can't stand is lies... Enrique being a bad BF is a lot of worse than just saying bye... I've seen girls who were completely in love and when they finished the relationship they didn't want to eat, they didn't want to leave home, they cried, suffered, but the world is not going to end and then they were fine again! Anna is not going to die because of that, she's a fighter, she's done some many harder things in her life, she would suffer and then move on as many people do!

[mbno20x2]

Originally Posted by Grid Kournikova

If there's one thing I can't stand is lies... Enrique being a bad BF is a lot of worse than just saying bye... I've seen girls who were completely in love and when they finished the relationship they didn't want to eat, they didn't want to leave home, they cried, suffered, but the world is not going to end and then they were fine again! Anna is not going to die because of that, she's a fighter, she's done some many harder things in her life, she would suffer and then move on as many people do!

If she's such a fighter and done many hard things, then she's strong enough to realize that this relationship is not working. She doesn't need Enrique to spell it out for her. She doesn't need him to dump her. She needs to walk away. How do you know he lies? Maybe he tells her exactly the way it is and she stays anyway. He doesn't hide that he goes to clubs without her. No secret he's rarely home and has no time for her. He doesn't hide that he never wants to marry her. So who's to blame here? It's Anna. Blame her for being a doormat. She's the one with the power to walk away. No need to be mad at Enrique. Anna's the one you should be mad at. She has not shown any backbone since she stopped playing tennis. She's become weak and sad and dependent on some guy she can't give up. I blame her for the way she acts. All the way. She's in control of her life. Start showing it, Anna.

[Grid_Kournikova]

First you're not a girl... You don't know how is it to be a girl in love... LOL... My friends are not stupid, but I've seen them doing dumb things because they were in love! Women usually idealize things, they're in love and they want that to seem a fairy-tale and to work out anyway... I've seen my friends dating jerks and they didn't break-up... Carol (one of my friends) last month broke-up a 4 year relationship, but that was really hard for her, she can't even hear love songs and she starts crying... Enrique is the one who's the jerk and that's why I blame him... Because as I said I HATE men like him... I hate womanizing guys, who loves flirting and who has no respect for his GF... I've seen many of friends bad because of this type of guys... Recently Marilia (other friend) gave birth to a girl and the father, who, BTW, is a guy she was dating for over 3 years, didn't even want to see the baby, because he doesn't want to take the responsibilities of being a father, when she was pregnant he wanted her to make an abortion, she didn't do it and they broke-up! I say things from my own experience, not my own, but my friends experiences, and that's the reason why I only had one serious BF my whole life, because I'm afraid of suffering over a guy who doesn't deserve me as I see happening to many of friends...

[mbno20x2]

Originally Posted by Grid Kournikova

First you're not a girl... You don't know how is it to be a girl in love... LOL... My friends are not stupid, but I've seen them doing dumb things because they were in love! Women usually idealize things, they're in love and they want that to seem a fairy-tale and to work out anyway... I've seen my friends dating jerks and they didn't break-up... Carol (one of my friends) last month broke-up a 4 year relationship, but that was really hard for her, she can't even hear love songs and she starts crying... Enrique is the one who's the jerk and that's why I blame him... Because as I said I HATE men like him... I hate womanizing guys, who loves flirting and who has no respect for his GF... I've seen many of friends bad because of this type of guys... Recently Marilia (other friend) gave birth to a girl and the father, who, BTW, is a guy she was dating for over 3 years, didn't even want to see the baby, because he doesn't want to take the responsibilities of being a father, when she was pregnant he wanted her to make an abortion, she didn't do it and they broke-up! I say things from my own experience, not my own, but my friends experiences, and that's the reason why I only had one serious BF my whole life, because I'm afraid of suffering over a guy who doesn't deserve me as I see happening to many of friends...

Sorry, Grid, but yes, your friends are stupid! They should have dumped those guys long before it got so bad. That girl shouldn't have gotten pregnant. She's in charge of her own body. She has a responsibility to use birth control as much as the guy. Don't come crying about getting pregnant. The girl is just as much responsible as the guy. It takes two. Women love to cry and pretend men are such jerks. But really it's them who are the jerks. They cling to men instead of being independent and being strong. There are lots of women who don't let men walk all over them. Now that's attractive. You say you hate womanizing men. Well, I can tell you that I hate women like that, weak, pathetic women who let men rule them instead of being independent and knowing their own worth. A girl in love doesn't have to act like a fool. A girl who does is really unattractive to men, and maybe that's why Enrique has lost interest in Anna. She's become weak and clingy. It's a turnoff. But men don't like to be mean and dump a girl, so he hopes if he pulls away, she'll get fed up and look for a new guy. That's how men think.

[Grid_Kournikova]

Originally Posted by mbno20x2

Sorry, Grid, but yes, your friends are stupid! They should have dumped those guys long before it got so bad. That girl shouldn't have gotten pregnant. She's in charge of her own body. She has a responsibility to use birth control as much as the guy. Don't come crying about getting pregnant. The girl is just as much responsible as the guy. It takes two.

I know... She was responsable for that too and she was strong enough to say no when he asked her to make an abortion... She took her responsability, she didn't run aways from this and she has a cute baby girl now! I'm just saying how men are... They don't like taking responsabilities... She suffered with the break-up, but that made her stronger and she's now a happy mom... And don't call my friends stupid, you don't know them!

Originally Posted by mbno20x2

Women love to cry and pretend men are such jerks. But really it's them who are the jerks. They cling to men instead of being independent and being strong. There are lots of women who don't let men walk all over them. Now that's attractive. You say you hate womanizing men.Well, I can tell you that I hate women like that, weak, pathetic women who let men rule them instead of being independent and knowing their own worth. A girl in love doesn't have to act like a fool. A girl who does is really unattractive to men, and maybe that's why Enrique has lost interest in Anna. She's become weak and clingy. It's a turnoff. But men don't like to be mean and dump a girl, so he hopes if he pulls away, she'll get fed up and look for a new guy. That's how men think.

You really don't know women and how much emotional they are... Even the strongest ones (like me... huahuahua... ) get a little dumb while in love! It's not about being weak... It's about taking risks, men walks into a relationship for many reasons, girls when they find a BF is because they want that guy to be the right one and they expect the relationship to be like a fairy-tale and that's why they get a little stupid, because they idealize it... Didn't you see what Enrique said in that interview... that Anna told him that she wants him to be the father of her children, girls while in a relationship they have the dream it will be forever... Anna is independent, If she wasn't she would be following him around... She's in Miami living her life while he's traveling around... She's just in love... You're not a girl so don't try to understand girls mind!

I'm a rare case... I'm single for like more than 2 years... My GF are always saying... "Oh, there are so many guys who have a crush over you and you're alone"... I'm really a hard girl... The guys who get interested in me they don't even tell me, they go to my friends first... Because I'm really closed to guys... They get afraid of coming talking to me... They tell my friends they're interested in me... LOL... and the reason I'm like that is because I don't want to fall in love with the wrong person... I wait for a good guy to come to my life and I won't let nobody put me down... But not every girl is like me! Many Girls I know don't like being alone, for them is like hell, it's like they always need a man by their sides... I'm really not like that... I'm better alone than being with any guy who'll not respect me...