anna and enrique fans chat and in-depth discussion thread

[EnriquesDarkAngel]

Originally Posted by mbno20x2

If she's such a fighter and done many hard things, then she's strong enough to realize that this relationship is not working. She doesn't need Enrique to spell it out for her. She doesn't need him to dump her. She needs to walk away. How do you know he lies? Maybe he tells her exactly the way it is and she stays anyway. He doesn't hide that he goes to clubs without her. No secret he's rarely home and has no time for her. He doesn't hide that he never wants to marry her. So who's to blame here? It's Anna. Blame her for being a doormat. She's the one with the power to walk away. No need to be mad at Enrique. Anna's the one you should be mad at. She has not shown any backbone since she stopped playing tennis. She's become weak and sad and dependent on some guy she can't give up. I blame her for the way she acts. All the way. She's in control of her life. Start showing it, Anna.

I couldn't agree with you more, you hit the nail right on the head..... I am a 32 year old woman, and it's so obvious to us older fans what is going on here. She needs to just walk away or get tough! He has said for years he loves, independant women, women with a passion, who aren't afraid to stand up to him..... this isn't Anna. She has never been alone long enough to go out and find herself. She has went from man to man and that is her fault and also her mothers fault by not properly guiding her......I remember seeing her sitting at a hotel bar alone, waiting for over an hour for I guess him, she looked so lonely, it was so bad, and even though I don't like her, I went over and offered to buy her a drink.... she declined... I hate to see a woman who is weak, it kills me......I am so glad that my mother was a battle axe when it came to men, she didn't put up with shit and I learned to be the same way maybe a bit to the obsessive of it....LOL. My grandmother always trys to tell me to put up with a lil bit more but I can't.... I just can't.... but I don't feel too sorry for Anna, she supposedly can have any man she want so I don't know why she stays where she is at........she is too young to be miserable.....Id gladly trade her ages.....

Ingrid, I replied to your pm......have a nice day....

~~ Anita ~~

[Grid_Kournikova]

Originally Posted by EnriquesDarkAngel

I couldn't agree with you more, you hit the nail right on the head..... I am a 32 year old woman, and it's so obvious to us older fans what is going on here. She needs to just walk away or get tough! He has said for years he loves, independant women, women with a passion, who aren't afraid to stand up to him..... this isn't Anna. She has never been alone long enough to go out and find herself. She has went from man to man and that is her fault and also her mothers fault by not properly guiding her......I remember seeing her sitting at a hotel bar alone, waiting for over an hour for I guess him, she looked so lonely, it was so bad, and even though I don't like her, I went over and offered to buy her a drink.... she declined... I hate to see a woman who is weak, it kills me......I am so glad that my mother was a battle axe when it came to men, she didn't put up with shit and I learned to be the same way maybe a bit to the obsessive of it....LOL. My grandmother always trys to tell me to put up with a lil bit more but I can't.... I just can't.... but I don't feel too sorry for Anna, she supposedly can have any man she want so I don't know why she stays where she is at........she is too young to be miserable.....Id gladly trade her ages.....

Ingrid, I replied to your pm......have a nice day....

~~ Anita ~~

Everyone who's alone in some place looks lonely... Sometimes I'm invited to go out with my friends and I get in the place first and I have to wait alone and I'll be quite, a little shy, I get really bored, because I'm really talkative and I'm a people person, but when my friends arrive I start laughing, talking... It's not like she was bad because she didn't have Enrique around, it's because she didn't have any friend around, no one to talk... And how nice of you to offer her a drink... Imagine a girl that is just crazy about your BF come to you to offer you a drink, I really have no idea why Anna refused... :rofl:

I'm also not a weak girl as I said I better be alone then with someone who won't respect me... But many girls I know aren't like that and there' like a pressure... It's like you have something wrong if you don't have a BF, I don't care about it cause I'm too young... I don't think Anna is weak... She's a fighter... I just think she never really loved somebody like she loves Enrique... Sergei was crazy about her, now she's crazy about Enrique... But one day she'll move on, I know she will... Didn't Sergei move on? I heard he changed city, the team he played and rebuilt his life completely to get over Anna, but now he's ok... I don't call him weak... And well as I said, one day Anna will move on, get on with her life, If she doesn't finish the relationship one day Enrique will and till this time I'm going to say bad things about Enrique here cause I like it! I just LOVE criticizing jerks... LOL...

[Hot_for_Enrique]

Originally Posted by Grid Kournikova

One question only about his CD... huahuahua... And from what I remember from "Quien" magazine they just mentioned he had a new CD, didn't even ask about it... If it wasn't Anna I wonder what Enrique interviews would look like, what interviewers would ask... They just ask about Anna and his father 90% of the time... People are really interested in his work... right? :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

If I rememeber right SI is a sports magazine not a magazine about music. So why would they want to have the whole interview about music??????

[Grid_Kournikova]

Originally Posted by Hot for Enrique

If I rememeber right SI is a sports magazine not a magazine about music. So why would they want to have the whole interview about music??????

I was not only talking about that interview... Many interviews I read they ask him about Anna and his dad and they put his work on second plan...
And well... I'll not argue over this... If you think people and media are really interested in his work... ok... that's your opinion... I'm just saying that most of the interviews I read, they just mention about his new CD, but the questions are ALL about Anna and his dad...

[Davenport]

Like I said earlier:

I don't really think Enrique should be blamed for everything, Grid. Lately everyone of Anna's problems is Enrique's fault to you. Yes, he has caused some problems but he's not as bad as you say...just my two cents.

And also the hating is getting really old. We understand you don't like him, Grid, but there's no need to include it in every single post.

[Grid_Kournikova]

I post interview and write my opinion and that's it... I really don't get why Enrique fans come here...

And well I'm just 19 and I may be childish and I don't care... I'm mature for many things... I work, I study, I have bunch of responsibilities, I'm the good and responsible girl of the family, my grandma and my parents are proud of me... I don't really care being called childish...

[Davenport]

Well I like you a lot, Grid, and don't think that you're childish/immature but the Enrique bashing is starting to get irritating. Otherwise, you are very mature and a nice person.

[EnriquesDarkAngel]

Originally Posted by Grid Kournikova

Everyone who's alone in some place looks lonely...

That is not true, I spend 90% of my time alone, but since I am confident, I know I don't look lonely, cause I'm not....... Enrique spends alot of time alone, does he always look lonely? NO, some of us are used to it. It's obvious Anna doesn't, she has always had a man or mommie by her side. As far as me offering her a drink, at the time, I don't think she knew who I was or that I knew Enrique, she didn't even find that out till the following day so what is your next theory...... I really don't even care... I replied to your PM..... toodles.....

[Grid_Kournikova]

I think that a person who really is confident doesn't need to say that out loud all the time... You seem to me someone who wants to be seen as really strong, but that when nobody is seeing you must cry and not be that happy... Humm... Sorry If I'm wrong... But I think everyone has their fragilities, and the people who have the need to be seen as confident and strong are just trying to fool theirselves and the world! And I didn't say I can't be alone... I spend many time alone, but being alone in a bar table or a party isn't nice, I go to the movies alone and I don't care, but some places it's nice to have people around to talk, to laugh, as I said I'm people person and maybe that's how Anna is... She was there alone and felt bored, that means she can't be alone? Change your theory too, Enrique is traveling all the time, Anna is seen shopping for grocery, leaving the gym, alone all the time and she seems nice...

[Davenport]

Originally Posted by EnriquesDarkAngel

Why couldn't they stay there..... why didn't she just give them the house, she is loaded? I would do that for my parents, in a heartbeat.....no matter what....

~~ Anita ~~

Because the house was a multi-million dollar house that Anna payed for on her own. Can you imagine how loosing all of that money would have hurt her?